Bachelorette No. 1
The thing that turns me on the most about a man is how he touches me. I believe that there are two types of modalities when it comes to men and women. Women are primarily aroused from a sensual modality, which is basically the sensation of touch, while men are turned on simply from a visual modality, which is being excited by looking at a woman. That being the case, I can say, from personal experience, that I definitely respond to touching. When a man touches me in the right way, there is no feeling like that. I become completely vulnerable to whatever he wants to do after that. The question is do I allow him to touch me? Some outspoken ladies who want to remain anonymous share some intimate thoughts...

Bachelorette No. 2
If I were completely honest, I'd have to say the thing that turns me on the most about men is their scent. How a guy smells makes all the difference in the world. I think you can learn a lot about a guy simply from his scent. I mean, it's true that every guy has some kind of odor, but the question is: Is it enticing or a turn-off? That's really the long and short of it. If you can't stand a man's scent, you're never going to be able to convince yourself that any relationship is going to work. On the other hand, if you like his scent, you have a real shot at moving forward toward the bridge of sexual intimacy. And if you're really into his scent, and even excited by it, you'll find yourself willing to do practically anything for this man. But if his odor turns you off, you may as well start looking for someone else.

Bachelorette No. 3
A guy with great legs that are big and strong turns me on. Men with strong legs tend to use them for leverage when performing other acts, if you know what I mean. A great deal of thrusting power used in intimacy originates from the lower body-the abdomen and legs. It would be a given that any guy who maintains a fit abdomen would have strong legs, especially since most men would attack the abdomen first and the legs second.

Bachelorette No. 4
There is nothing that turns me on more than a man who knows how to use his tongue. The tongue is probably the second most pleasing organ of the human anatomy, second only to the-you know what. The exciting thing about the tongue is that it is the initiator of intimacy in most cases. It affords great insights into the level of experience and compassion a man has to offer long before indulging in the sex act. He can do all kinds of things to you with his tongue that in some cases may even preclude the act of sex itself. When that happens, you know you have reached sheer ecstasy and that man will please you with just about anything he does.

Bachelorette No. 5
If I can be quite candid, the most important quality that turns me on is how a guy moves in intimate situations; I mean how he strokes me. Is he too fast or too slow, too rigid, too emotionless, or too selfish? It can be a lot of wrong things and a few right things but, unfortunately for the guy, he's only going to get one opportunity to plead his case. This is the one test that, in most cases, if you flunk you're going to get booted out with no rebuttals. There will be no appeal. This decision, like arbitration, is final.

Bachelorette No. 6
I like a caring man, one who cooks for me now and then and serves up the wine and soft music with our romantic meal. Yes, I like dining out, but a man who cares enough to make all the meal preparations himself is a real gem. No foreplay gets me in a loving mood quicker than good treatment. Make me feel special: pamper me, stroke me emotionally, surprise me with a small no-occasion gift and I'll melt in your arms. When I'm made to feel special, I delight in expressing my appreciation in warm and intimate ways.

Bachelorette No. 7
I like being with a man I can talk to, who also has something to communicate beyond pick-up lines and pillow talk. Lovemaking isn't just about what a man has in his pants; with me, it's as much or more about what he's got between his ears. We will never get to explore the physical if I'm not stimulated intellectually. And please be able to converse on some subjects other than yourself. You can learn a lot about a man's self-image by engaging him in conversation. The man who holds my attention is one who's interested in something more than his car, his wardrobe, and his bank balance. There's a whole big world out there to explore of yesterdays, today and tomorrow. I'm really turned on by a man who's able to take this head-trip with me.