...is she using drugs?...
Tate Festus, how can I tell if my daughter is taking drugs?

Is she smiling – more so than usual? Is she skipping school a lot but her poetry and artwork have improved?
Are old vinyl records, earth coloured clothing, cash and valuables missing from the house? Is she suddenly able to get along with family members, especially the dog (not the cat!) to an unusual extent? Is she listening to music from people like Mob Barley or Sas Rhehama?
Good communication with you is key to her having a better chance of avoiding substance abuse. Don’t nag as she may feel that you don’t trust her or love her. Once in a while take part in her herbal experience. Solve problem by facing them!
The following warning signs are indicators that she may be on the way to more serious drugs: you are sunbathing at the beach and your daughter with her Greenpeace-lover tries dragging you back into the ocean

She's too passive...
During sex she just lies there and expects me to do everything. But sometimes I feel I want her to take charge, especially when I'm tired. How can I help her come to the party?

Young man, where I come from those memes who like to be in charge and in top positions…work for the devil! Let me take a wild guess, your girl was born north of Oshivelo and she enjoys intercourse more if there is no direct eye contact (dark room or she covers her eyes or both?…)

Tired of womanising...
I used to have a serious problem with lust. I’m only 21 but you’d be shocked at the number of woman I’ve had in my life. I used to chase every bit of skirt I saw and with my good looks I had a high success rate.
But I’ve seen my problem and now proud to say I’m a one-woman man. But I’m concerned. I am getting bored with her and she is no longer exciting. I fear that maybe because I got use to the chase I got use to the thrill and excitement of a new girl and a new relationship. What should I do?

It’s very important to ensure your main woman in your life. Make her feel like she is the only one. You can try new techniques, talk to her...
Beside that you can still sleep around she doesn't’t need to know. That way you save the wonderful relationship you have without upsetting her…just don’t let me catch you around my house & daughters… you nasty somemamabishy...